The new me!

So where has Jeff been? Well I said the hell with where my life was going and I made some changes. I put a profile out on Match and found a wonderful boyfriend named Patrick. We have been seeing each other since January of this year and I couldn't be happier.

I am out of the closet for good now and for the life of me can't figure out why I didn't come out sooner. I had always thought that my family and friends would be horribly disappointed in me for being gay. Well that was totally not true. Granted there have been some tough times and some people I told were sort of freaked out, but overall life is good now.

So since I'm out in my personal life this blog is going to reflect that from now on. I am an open book now!

Dan is back!!

One of the blogs I read frequently is http://daninokc.blogspot.com/. I really enjoy following Dan in his travels and the man has some great fashion advice.

Dan, as am I, is not out of the closet to many people and recently some one he knows ran across his blog. From what I gather this person flipped and Dan had to take a step back and consider some things. During this time his blog was down and i was not sure that he would be back.

He is now back up and running, but now I am wondering what would I do if put into the same situation. I guess it would depend on who the person was. I think my family would be accepting, but I don't know for sure. At this junction in time I am going to keep on posting and see what happens.

Jester