The new me!

So where has Jeff been? Well I said the hell with where my life was going and I made some changes. I put a profile out on Match and found a wonderful boyfriend named Patrick. We have been seeing each other since January of this year and I couldn't be happier.

I am out of the closet for good now and for the life of me can't figure out why I didn't come out sooner. I had always thought that my family and friends would be horribly disappointed in me for being gay. Well that was totally not true. Granted there have been some tough times and some people I told were sort of freaked out, but overall life is good now.

So since I'm out in my personal life this blog is going to reflect that from now on. I am an open book now!

Still around

I had totally forgot about this blog until I received a comment to my last post LOL!

Well I am still in Nebraska and all is well now. A few months after my last post I lost my job and was out of work for about six months. I know that sounds bad, but it literally saved my life. Once I as out of that hell hole I called my job I realized that it was that job that was the cause of my depression. I did some soul searching in those six months and ended up casting away all of my troubles and found a new job in the process.

As for the "in closet" issue I am out to a select group of people and am doing quite well. The first person I told flipped out and wouldn't believe me and ended up having to call another friend over to see what he thought. He was like "Duh? How could you not know?" and then we all laughed about it for a while. Now I need to find a good man to share my life with!

I will post regularly now for those of you follow along...